How to Attain Your Goals
by Creating Your Life’s Opus
By Douglas Vermeeren
Most
people want to live a fulfilling and rewarding life. That’s why
there’s no shortage of self-help materials on how to set goals and
design an ideal life. However, even with the plethora of information
available on how to create the life of your dreams, many people
still feel dissatisfied and unable to reach key goals they’ve
outlined for themselves. What are these people missing?
The key
is to know how to turn your goals into performance. A great analogy
is to think in terms of creating your own life’s Opus. Why an Opus?
Because that’s what you are capable of. Some dictionaries define an
Opus as the most brilliant composition a music composer creates in a
lifetime. You are your own instrument and you create your personal
symphony by what you do in your life. Realize that you have
unlimited potential and that anything is possible. Your personal
symphony can be grand. It can be colorful. It can be inspiring. You
can choose it to be anything you like. Therefore, your personal Opus
is really about taking your life and creating the most incredible
and awesome legacy that is within you—that’s how your goals become
reality.
So how
exactly do you create an Opus or long-lasting legacy? While many
people may believe that creating an Opus is about reaching big and
monumental milestones and goals, it’s really nothing more than a
combination of small and great achievements along the way. When you
consistently do little things that advance you toward your goals,
you are working from an achievement process and are creating your
own personal Opus.
Unfortunately, after outlining what they want in life, people often
feel stuck. They know what they want to achieve, but they lack the
insight on what to do next—on how to create real performance. The
following steps will help you past this stumbling block.
1.
Start with a vision of where you want to go: Your vision of your
goal needs to be clear and precise. You also need to understand why
you want it. Why is this goal important to you? These motivating
factors in terms of the value you attach to your goals will help you
in your pursuit of them. Part of this vision is to make a definite
and committed decision that you’re ultimately going to achieve what
you’ve outlined for yourself. You must believe that your goals are
not just whimsical dreams—they’re determined decisions that you’re
going to contribute your efforts toward to ultimately create your
Opus.
2.
Have a belief in yourself that you can really do it: If you
don’t truly believe you can achieve your goals, you’ll prove
yourself right—you won’t achieve them. That’s why your belief in
your ability to achieve your goals has to resonate throughout the
entire goal achievement process. Never let go of your belief in your
ability to create an Opus. Stay committed and always know that you
are on your way there.
3.
Build a solid plan: Your goal achievement plan begins with
surrounding yourself with people who have been where you want to go
or who are currently going there right now. These people could be
mentors or coaches, or just people you feel comfortable asking
questions of. As you talk with these people and get their insights,
remember that this is your personal journey. There are things that
your mentors, coaches or other people may have experienced that will
not be important or applicable to you. Therefore, you need to
personalize the information they give you and analyze the answers to
see how they fit into what you’re doing. You don’t want to simply
repeat what they’ve done; you want to create your own unique Opus.
4.
Take notice of everything: As you start with small steps, your
probability of success will increase. All of sudden, steps will
appear that you’ll have to accomplish, work will come in that you’ll
have to complete, and actions will become evident that you’ll have
to take. You’ll feel as if you’re being “pointed” toward the path of
goal attainment. As you go through the tasks and steps, you’ll be
able to see if your actions are successfully contributing toward
your goals or if they need to be fine tuned. For example, sometimes
you’ll take an action, and by doing so you’ll better understand
something you need to know to complete the process, although the
action itself didn’t contribute to your goals in the originally
planned way. That’s OK. Everything is important as long as you learn
from it. Sometimes a part of your plan is just learning what the
next best steps are.
5.
Take the correct actions that will yield the best results: Many
people say that the final step to achieving any goal is to simply
take action and do it. In reality, you need performance, not action,
to create a real Opus. Many people today think they’re taking action
but they’re not really getting anywhere. For example, you may know a
business person who is always on the phone or at the office working
hard, yet the person never advances. He or she is taking action, but
it’s not the right action—the action isn’t contributing to the
person’s overall goals. Real performance is calculated action to a
particular end. That’s why the last step is to take the correct
actions that will get you to that final destination in the most
effective way. This doesn’t always mean the quickest way, because
sometimes taking the longer route will give you a bigger payoff at
the end. And that’s what creating your Opus is all about—the biggest
payoff for yourself and others.
A
Symphony of One : Remember, your Opus is not just what you do;
it will be the legacy of what you become. That’s why a substantial
part of creating your Opus is to focus on the legacy you’re leaving,
not just individual goal achievements. You also need to focus on
your contributions—what you give back to society, to your family, or
to the people around you. Why is this important? Because your legacy
and your success are your marks on the world, and your Opus will be
filled with contributions of whom you became.
The next
time you think of a goal for yourself, think beyond the actual event
or task. Remember that any goal is really just a small step along
the way toward your life’s Opus. Having this mindset from the
beginning makes it possible for you to attain bigger and better
things, and to create an Opus the world will want to know about.
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