Know How Network:
Using Irrational Behavior to Your Advantage
By Michelle LaBrosse
It’s
the start of a new year and once again, I set goals for the year.
These are different than “resolutions” as I fully intend on meeting
them. Some of these goals are the same from year to year: get in
better shape, spend more time with my family, work smarter (not
necessarily harder), decrease expenses, increase revenue, be the
change I want to see in the world, end world hunger, get a super
power... and this year I added a new goal to the list. I will walk
1,000 miles in 2011. Instead of approaching this goal rationally,
like I’m prone to do for any project, I wanted to apply the ideas in
the book Sway: The Irresistible Pull of Irrational Behavior,
by Ori and Rom Brafum. If I behave irrationally naturally,
as the authors point out, I may as well behave irrationally in a way
that helps achieve my objectives.
Several years ago, when I first read the Brafum’s book, I created
this summary mind map to better harness my own irrational behavior.

Here
is how I will use the information from Sway to help me walk
1,000 miles this year:
Commitment:
The Brafum’s state that people will stick with a course of action
even if it is clearly not the way to go. Doing the math, walking
1,000 miles in a year will require me to walk at least 85 miles
every month. If I am only able to walk 80% of the time (setback by
the thousands of excuses I can generate), I will need to walk 3.2
miles every day I manage to get off my computer. If I publicize
these figures (oops, just did!), I am likely to feel a greater sense
of commitment and accountability. I will publicize my progress from
now and then on my blog, which will hold me accountable through the
miles. The progress notes will be filed under the category
“Thousand-Mile Walk.”
Value
Attribution:
High-tech shoes, pedometer apps on my iPhone, Nordic walking sticks,
that posh walking clinic to learn how to do Chi walking – these all
increase my desire to walk MORE. Admittedly, I am a
gadget-gizmo-techno head and I am inspired by indulging this
personality characteristic.
Diagnostic
Bias:
People live up to how others label them. Proactively, I label
myself—I am a Chi Walker. Chi Walking is a fascinating technique
that involves focus on postural alignment, which results in a great
workout while reducing the potential for overuse injuries. I am a
chi walker on a 1,000-mile journey. Watch me walk!
Perception
of Fairness:
When
I was a new, young bride, my husband, who was almost a foot taller
than me, would walk at a leisurely pace and I had to jog just to
keep up with him. It felt so unfair and demoralizing. What I learned
in Chi walking is you walk based on the pace and gait that is right
for you. It doesn’t matter if the pace is right for anyone else. I
am short, and therefore my gait is short. Chi walking uses a core
rotational technique that helps me move faster while maintaining my
shorter gait. I can keep pace comfortably when walking with my
taller (actually, average height) friends. It now feels “fair.”
Motivation:
Different pleasure centers are activated in your brain based on your
source of motivation. Materialistic rewards for achieving goals
don’t cut it for me as much as the intrinsic feeling of
accomplishment I get for reaching that goal. According to Brafum’s
book, most people operate this way. Pushing myself past my 3.2 mile
per walk goal gets me excited. Having somewhere fun to walk to with
my family or friends gets me motivated to go out and walk.
Value
of Dissenting Opinions:
My parents raised me to challenge current authority, a trait I have
passed down to my children. They all feel free to openly challenge
the way I walk, where I’m walking, when I’m walking, how fast I’m
walking, who else is walking with us, why we’re walking, the current
weather conditions, our shoes, the brand of moleskin for blisters,
pedometers, how much water to bring, and who will be our support
vehicle if something goes awry. This creates a tremendous amount of
focus and energy around the act of going for a daily walks.
Aversion
to Losses:
A couple years ago, my mom and I were taking a water aerobics class
from this character we nicknamed “Boot Camp Bob.” In his flag
baseball cap over his shaved head, he barked exercise instructions
at us while John Phillip Sousa music blared from pool’s sound
system. He used to shout, “Get moving, you pansies, so you don’t end
up in the nursing home!” This has now inspired my walking mantra:
Get moving, stay young. After all, the scientist in me knows
Newton’s First Law of Motion—basically, a body in motion stays in
motion.
I’m
now inspired to act irrationally and achieve my 1,000-mile walking
goal. How can you harness the power of irrational forces to
achieve your goals?
A.
What commitments drive your current behavior? How can you change
your commitments
B.
What
value do you place on achieving your goals? How can you increase the
value for yourself?
C.
What
labels can you give yourself that will help you achieve your goal?
D.
How
can you make it a “fair” game to achieve your goal?
E.
What
intrinsic motivators get you fired up to go for your goal?
F.
Who
challenges you? How can you get them to do it more so you get that
fire in your belly to go for it?
G.
What
will you lose if you fail to reach your goal? How can you avoid
experiencing that loss?
Be
irrational. It might just help you go for it!
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